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Your 20s are often romanticised as the ultimate decade of freedom and self-discovery, but for many they are also a decade of confusion, self-doubt and chasing versions of success that don’t actually feel like us. Moving into my 30s was the circuit breaker I needed to finally throw the rule book, let go of my expectations and start truly living for me. The lessons I’ve learned have shaped me into someone more grounded, confident and at peace with who I am; something I’d have found impossible to achieve in my 20’s. Stepping away from societal shoulds taught me that impactful growth happens when you unlearn the expectations that were never yours and replace them with goals and ambitions that actually light you up. As a natural people-pleaser, I have been on (and continue to be on) a journey of self-discovery, learning how I can show up for myself so that I can be the best version of myself for the people around me. I’ve found my 30’s the happiest and most transformative years of my life, so I want to share 10 life lessons I’ve learned in my 30’s that I wish I’d known in my 20’s to help you go through this transition of self-doubt and second-guessing yourself, with ease and grace. The 10 Life Lessons I've Learned in my 30's 1) Trying to be like everyone else is exhausting and will make you miserable; just be you Stop comparing yourself to others. Exhaustion comes from trying to keep up when it means being someone you are not. Embracing your authentic self takes courage but it takes far less energy than pretending to be someone you're not. 2) Pay attention to your gut, it's never wrong Moving from external validation to internal self-trust starts with listening to that quiet nudge in your gut. Your intuition is your inner wisdom speaking. Give it a seat at the table and pay attention to what it is telling you. 3) Don't shrink yourself to please others You are going to meet people who tell you you’re not good enough. They’ll encourage you to fit into a mould that fits their narrative not yours. Don’t listen to them. Don’t change yourself for them. You do not need anyone else's permission or approval to be who you truly are. And that person is good enough. 4) You know what's best for you so stop listening to everyone else Well-meaning people will always have opinions on what you should do with your life. But remember: they are viewing your life through the lens of their own fears, boundaries and life experiences, not yours. Reclaim authority over your own life and make sure you have the final say in everything you do. 5) It’s okay to start again; you’re not starting from scratch One of the biggest fears keeping women stuck in unfulfilling jobs or stale routines is the belief that starting over means wasting everything they’ve done so far, but the reality is that a pivot is never a failure; it is simply an upgrade based on new wisdom. You are never starting from scratch; you are starting from experience. So don’t be afraid to start again if it’s what’s best for you. 6) Stop trying to be perfect and just embrace the journey Perfectionism is just fear in a sharp suit. Swap perfection for progress and you’ll get more things done. Trade the demand for perfection for the curiosity to explore. When you allow yourself to make mistakes and learn as you go life becomes less serious and more fun. 7) We are all built differently so don’t expect people to think or act like you A huge amount of emotional friction comes from expecting other people to hold the same standards, values or communication styles that we do when the reality is that they don’t. Understanding this allows you to respect and accept people for who they are, making way for deeper connections with others. 8) Define success on your own terms not everyone else’s For years, I measured success by external milestones until I realised those milestones weren't making me happy. Take the time to strip away societal expectations and define what a successful, fulfilling life actually looks like for you. Once you know what that looks like, pursue it without apology. 9) You can’t please everyone so stop making that a priority When you try to make everyone happy the person you end up letting down most is yourself. Saying no to things that don't serve you isn't selfish, it’s an act of self-respect. Start preserving your energy for the things and people that truly matter and stop giving your attention to the things and people that don’t. 10) It's okay to move on from jobs, people and opinions that no longer serve you Embrace experience and people who what they are and be grateful for the memories and lessons they gave you. Not everything is meant to stay with you for life. As you grow, your values and priorities evolve too so there will be times you’ll need to let go of jobs, environments and people who no longer serve you. That’s okay; you’re making space for your future self to thrive. Moving Forwards With Confidence Your 20s might be for discovering who you think you should be, but your 30s are for becoming who you really are. If you find yourself stuck in self-doubt and feeling disconnected from who you truly are start with this one simple question: If I stripped away everyone else's expectations, opinions and shoulds, who would I be and what would I choose for myself? Wherever you are on your journey to finding your authentic self, know that you are not alone and you’re most definitely not behind. You’re simply evolving and taking a chance on becoming the best version of yourself and that is something to celebrate! I believe positive change doesn't stop with one person. Every time we gain a new perspective, build confidence or make a healthier choice, it has the potential to influence the people around us. That's the positive ripple effect of thriving, and it's something I care deeply about. The more people who become part of this community, the more opportunities we have to learn from one another, support each other and create meaningful, lasting change. 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Have you ever wanted something so incredibly badly, only to find yourself talking yourself out of even trying? If that feels familiar, please know that you are not alone. Daily, highly successful women sit at their corporate desks, staring at a screen, hiding a deep longing for change. You might want to apply for a new leadership role, start your own creative business, walk away from a relationship that no longer fits, or make a massive lifestyle change you have been dreaming about for years. Yet, instead of taking that first step, you find yourself frozen. When we want to make a transition, fear is almost always the first thing to show up. It is the single biggest reason we stay stuck in situations, routines and careers that no longer make us happy. The clever part about fear is that it rarely looks like fear. Instead, it disguises itself as logic, responsibility or being realistic. It convinces us that we are making the sensible, mature choice when in reality we are avoiding uncertainty. The most difficult part of this loop is that fear is incredibly convincing. It whispers that you are not ready yet. It tells you that you will fail and lose your financial security. It warns you that you will regret taking the risk and wish you had stayed where it was safe. Because the primal job of your mind is to keep you safe from discomfort, you believe these thoughts without ever questioning them. You stay exactly where you are, keeping yourself incredibly busy to avoid looking at the truth. The Loudest Story in Corporate Autopilot For the professional women I work with across Australia, fear usually tells a very specific, deeply painful story. When you think about stepping away from a comfortable job or making a major career transition, your mind does not just warn you about financial risk, it targets your sense of worth. It tells you: “if I leave, I will let everyone down and prove I was not cut out for success.” This is the classic good girl conditioning in action. From a young age, you have been praised for being responsible, hitting targets, pleasing others and meeting everyone else’s expectations. You have built your entire identity around being the reliable one who has it all figured out. So when you contemplate choosing your own happiness over a stable corporate path, your mind reframes your desire for change as a personal failure. It tells you that wanting more is selfish, that you are abandoning the people who rely on you, and that walking away means you simply could not hack the pressure. This story is incredibly heavy, and it is a complete illusion. It is a protective narrative designed to keep you in your comfort zone, even if that comfort zone is slowly draining your spirit. When you prioritize everyone else's expectations over your own alignment, you are not being responsible, you are allowing fear to drive your life. Moving My Whole Life to the Other Side of the World I know how loud these protective stories can get because I had to face them myself. A few years ago, my husband and I made one of the biggest decisions of our lives. We decided we wanted to move to Australia. That decision recently became a scary reality as we sold our beautiful home in Surrey, let go of 80% of our belongings, and hit the road whilst we wait for our visa to be processed. But it wasn’t an easy decision for me to make. Knowing I was putting my own desires above everyone else’s pushed me completely out of my comfort zone, and it took me a while to accept that what I was doing was self-love, rather than selfish. Before we submitted our visa application, my fear had plenty of arguments to make. It spent months keeping me awake, listing every worst-case scenario it could find. “What if it does not work out?” “You are giving up everything you have worked so hard to build.” “People will think you are abandoning them.” “What if you end up completely lonely and regret it forever?” For a long time, I believed those thoughts. I convinced myself that staying in the UK made more sense. My life in Surrey was comfortable, highly predictable, and, by most people’s standards, a great life. But there was a quiet voice underneath the noise of the fear that kept asking for something more. The more I tried to ignore that voice, the louder and more persistent it became. Eventually, I realized something that completely changed my perspective. "My fear was not telling me what I actually wanted, it was telling me what it wanted to protect me from." Those are two entirely different things. My fear wanted to protect me from the discomfort of uncertainty, but my authentic-self wanted growth, adventure and alignment. Once I understood that, I knew I had to learn how to overcome fear and stop holding yourself back. The 3 Questions That Overcome Fear Instead of trying to fight my fear, force myself to be fearless, or wait for the anxiety to magically disappear, I decided to get curious. I developed a simple, highly practical technique. Whenever a fear-driven, negative thought appeared in my mind, I stopped and asked myself three specific questions. You can use this exact exercise today to break your own decision paralysis. 1) What exactly am I afraid of? To take away the power of fear, you have to drag it out of the shadows and look at it clearly. You must be incredibly specific. Instead of letting a vague, heavy feeling of anxiety sit in your chest, or saying, I am just scared of changing careers, ask yourself what you are actually worried about. Are you afraid of failing publicly? Are you terrified of being judged by your colleagues or family? Are you worried about losing your financial independence? Are you scared of making a mistake and having to admit you were wrong? Write down your answers. Naming the fear, giving it a clear shape and putting it on paper immediately takes away its power. It goes from a giant, looming monster to a specific problem that you can actually look at objectively. 2) Is this fear based on facts or assumptions? Our brains are brilliant survival machines. They are wired to predict worst case scenarios to keep us safe from potential threats. The problem is that our minds often treat these imagined, worst-case outcomes as if they are absolute, guaranteed facts. When you look at your list of specific fears, ask yourself: What real, objective evidence do I actually have that this bad thing will happen? What am I completely assuming to be true? Is there an alternative, positive outcome that is equally possible? If you are telling yourself, “if I leave my corporate role, I will let everyone down,” stop and challenge that assumption. Will you really let them down, or are you projecting your people-pleasing habits onto them? If you leave, will you really prove you are not cut out for success, or will you prove that you are courageous enough to define success on your own terms? Most of the time, you will realize that your fear is telling a dramatic story rather than presenting a list of objective facts. 3) What evidence do I have that I can handle this? This final question was the absolute game-changer for me, and it is where your true power lies. Instead of focusing all your mental energy on what could go wrong, you must actively redirect your attention to what you have already overcome. Look back at your life and your career. Think about the difficult transitions you have navigated. Remember the tough, uncomfortable conversations you have successfully had. Recall the professional goals you have achieved, even when you doubted yourself. Reflect on the unexpected, chaotic situations you have adapted to in the past. You do not need absolute certainty that your next step will be perfect. You do not need a guarantee that you will never face a setback. You simply need to build the internal trust that, whatever happens, you have the resilience, the intelligence and the capability to find a way through it. That single shift in focus changes everything. It moves you out of helplessness and straight into momentum. Courage is Built in the Micro-Decisions One of the biggest misconceptions about personal growth is that confident people do not feel afraid. They absolutely do. The only difference is that they have learned that fear does not have to make their decisions for them. They do not wait for the fear to completely vanish before they take action. If I had waited until I felt completely fearless before selling my home and moving to Australia, I would still be sitting in Surrey, looking at photos of the beach and wondering what if. Courage is not the absence of fear. Courage is acknowledging the fear, challenging the story it is telling you and deciding that your growth is more important than your comfort. It is taking the next small, intentional step anyway. If you are currently waiting for a sign or waiting to feel completely ready, please realize that the feeling of being ready only comes after you take the risk. “You build confidence through action, not through endless research, overthinking, or reading self-development books from the safety of your comfort zone.” Taking action that aligns with your truest self, even if it goes completely against other people’s expectations, is the only path to true personal transformation and an abundance of self-love. When you spend your life trying to manage everyone else's expectations, you are living a life that is not yours. The cost of keeping everyone else comfortable is staying safely stuck in a life that feels empty. Is there an area of your life where fear has been making the decisions for you lately? If there is, I encourage you to try this exercise tonight. Write down every single fearful thought that is keeping you frozen. Work through the three questions, one thought at a time, and look at the evidence. You may discover that many of your loudest fears are not accurate predictions of your future, they are simply protective stories your mind has created to keep you safe. Sometimes, staying safe is appropriate, but most of the time staying safe comes at the direct cost of living the extraordinary, authentic life you truly want to live. Only you can decide which of those is more important to you. Growth does not begin when your fear disappears. It begins the very moment you decide that your happiness, your autonomy and your truth matter more than your discomfort. I believe positive change doesn't stop with one person. Every time we gain a new perspective, build confidence or make a healthier choice, it has the potential to influence the people around us. That's the positive ripple effect of thriving, and it's something I care deeply about. The more people who become part of this community, the more opportunities we have to learn from one another, support each other and create meaningful, lasting change. So, if you find something here that resonates with you, please share it. Let's make this a community worth talking about, not the internet's best-kept secret!

We’ve all experienced the feeling that we’re surviving and not thriving. We spend our days reacting to the next deadline, agreeing to requests we secretly want to decline and striving to meet a standard of perfection that does not exist, we slip into survival mode. The good news is that living this way is not your only option. Finding your authentic self and stepping out of survival mode into genuine alignment is entirely possible. Learning how to thrive in life and work comes down to cultivating a set of core daily habits. These 5 essential habits will help you drop the weight of external expectations, step out of people-pleasing and begin building a life you truly love. 1. Manage Your Expectations We all carry an internal vision of how we think our lives should be. When reality fails to match these expectations, frustration sets in. Thriving starts when you let go of your rigid expectations and embrace reality as it actually is. This does not mean settling for less or lowering your personal standards. It means trading unfair expectation for genuine appreciation. Try catching yourself when the word should enters your thought process. When you feel resentment building, ask yourself whether you are reacting to what is actually happening or reacting because reality did not follow your invisible script. Dropping your expectations allows you to stay present, build deeper connections with others and preserve your energy for actions that actually matter. 2. Learn to Say No If you are a high-achieving woman, chances are you have built a reputation on being helpful and dependable. You take on the extra project at work because you do not want to look uncommitted. You agree to social engagements when you are running on empty because you are terrified of letting people down. Short term, it might be manageable but long term it’s one of the fastest paths to career burnout and personal resentment. Being assertive and learning to say no in a polite, respectful way is not selfish; it’s an act of self-preservation. Start small by listening to your own needs first. Before you instantly agree to a request, pause and check in with yourself. Do you actually have the capacity for this? Do you want to do this? If the answer is no, offer a clear and polite decline. When you stop over-explaining, you reclaim power over your time. You begin doing things because you genuinely choose to, allowing you to enjoy your commitments guilt free. 3. Accept the Past It is completely normal to carry baggage from past experiences. The trouble arises when you drag those past choices into your present. When you replay old mistakes in your head, you reinforce the belief that you cannot trust yourself to make the right choices now. You freeze in indecision, terrified of making another mistake and end up staying stuck in a situation that no longer serves you. To thrive, you must accept that the past is entirely unchangeable. Remember that you made decisions in the past based on the awareness, conditioning and tools you had at that time. Recognise the lessons those experiences taught you, cherish the wisdom you gained and leave everything else behind you where it belongs. When you stop judging your past self, you free up the clarity required to trust your instincts today. 4. Prioritise Self-Care The modern conversation around self-care often focuses on superficial quick fixes, like expensive bath products, luxury spa days or strict wellness trends. While those can be lovely, real self-care goes much deeper. Thriving in your life and work requires independent self-care based on true self-awareness. What restores energy for a friend might completely drain you. You need to take the time to learn what uniquely fuels your physical, emotional and mental wellbeing. For you, self-care might look like logging off work on time without checking emails from your phone, taking 30-minutes of quiet time in nature to clear your mind after a chaotic day, prioritizing 8 hours of continuous sleep, or turning off social media notifications. Notice what activities leave you feeling grounded and energised and what leaves you feeling hollow and anxious. Do more of what makes you feel energised and less of what doesn’t. Taking care of your basic needs is not a luxury reserved for when everything else is finished, it’s the foundation that makes everything else possible. 5. Master Your Inner Dialogue What you tell yourself throughout the day impacts every single aspect of your reality. Your internal narrative dictates how you interpret events, how you respond to pressure and whether you believe you are capable of creating positive change. If you want your life and career to feel different on the outside, you must transform what is happening on the inside. Start by paying attention to your internal voice without judgment. When negative or fearful thoughts show up gently challenge the narrative. Ask yourself whether that thought is a proven fact or simply an old fear trying to keep you in your comfort zone. When you consciously build a warm and supportive inner environment, you cultivate the deep self-trust necessary to step into bold, aligned action. Thrive in Life and Work Thriving is not about changing your whole life overnight, it is about making small, intentional choices each day that honour who you truly are. It is about letting go of expectations, setting clear boundaries, honouring your past, caring for your health and speaking to yourself with kindness. When you commit to learning and implementing these 5 essentials habits you put yourself on a path to thriving instead of just surviving, in life and work. You don't have to take this journey alone. I’d love to welcome you into my FREE email community where I share self-coaching tools, tips and techniques to help you deepen your self-awareness and take your first steps towards confidently building a regret-free life. Subscribe now to get started. I believe positive change doesn't stop with one person. Every time we gain a new perspective, build confidence or make a healthier choice, it has the potential to influence the people around us. That's the positive ripple effect of thriving, and it's something I care deeply about. The more people who become part of this community, the more opportunities we have to learn from one another, support each other and create meaningful, lasting change. So, if you find something here that resonates with you, please share it. Let's make this a community worth talking about, not the internet's best-kept secret!

New to SJS Coaching Services? Jump into my most valuable FREE resources and get started on your journey to a regret-free life. HI, I'M STACEY THANKS SO MUCH FOR BEING HERE! I work with professional women who look successful on the outside but feel lost and unfulfilled on the inside. Women who feel disconnected with themselves and fearful that they’re making all the wrong decisions because it doesn’t matter what they achieve they still doesn’t feel happy. Women who feel stuck and powerless to know how to move forwards, and fear regret that it’s too late to do anything, or that they’ll make the wrong decision. What they really want to feel is self-assured that they know themselves well enough to know how to stop second-guessing themselves and move away from indecision towards aligned action. They want to feel in control of their life and confident enough to take intentional action rather than living on autopilot, so they can ultimately build a regret-free life. Through 1:1 coaching and self-coaching resources, everything I create is designed to help you move from stuck and confused to empowered and self-led. Check out my most popular resources below. READ MY TOP 3 BLOG ARTICLES Read my most popular blog posts. NO.1 REGRET PEOPLE HAVE AND HOW TO AVOID IT In this blog post i share the number 1 regret people have at the end of their life and how to avoid it. 2 min read 5 HABITS THAT WILL HELP YOU THRIVE We all want to live a long and happy life. This month I wanted to share with you the most important habits you will learn on this journey. 3 min read DO YOU HAVE AUTONOMY OVER YOUR LIFE? Autonomy means having a voice and making your own choices. Answer 5 simple questions to find out if you have it in this months blog. 2 min read WATCH MY MOST POPULAR VIDEO Watch my most popular self-coaching video. This channel is coming soon! Facebook Twitter Pinterest Tumblr Copy Link Link Copied Close TAKE THE QUIZ Find out where you are on your journey to living a regret-free life. NEW FREE RESOURCE COMING SOON FOLLOW ME I share quick tips to help you confidently build a regret-free life.

A life coaching business that specialises in helping professional women eliminate self-doubt and indecision, so they can confidently build a regret-free life. OWN YOUR STORY. SHAPE YOUR FUTURE. LIFE COACHING FOR PROFESSIONAL WOMEN WHO WANT TO BREAK-FREE FROM AUTOPILOT LIVING AND INTENTIONALLY BUILD A REGRET-FREE LIFE. YOUR ROADMAP TO A REGRET-FREE LIFE 10+ YEARS EXPERIENCE 100% CLIENT SATISFACTION 1000+ COACHING HOURS ENROLMENT FOR 1 TO 1 COACHING OPENING SOON THAT SOMETHING IS MISSING FEELING EVEN THOUGH YOUR LIFE LOOKS GOOD ON PAPER. I work with professional women who look successful on the outside but feel lost and unfulfilled on the inside. Women who, on paper, should be happy. They've ticked all the boxes when it comes to career, relationships and societal definitions of success and yet is still feels like something is missing. They've played by the rules, done everything they were supposed to do, and present themselves considerately, communicating well to others, and yet they don't feel heard. They've worked hard to be confident in their abilities and yet still have moments of self-doubt so deep that they stop them from doing what really matters to them . A s a result these women feel disconnected with themselves and fearful that they’re making all the wrong decisions because it doesn’t matter what they achieve they still don’t feel happy. And so they stay stuck. Powerless to know how to move forwards, and fear regret that it's too late to do anything, or that they'll make the wrong decision when what they really want to feel is self-assured that they know themselves well enough to know how to stop second-guessing themselves and move away from indecision. They want to feel in control of their life and confident enough to take intentional action rather than living on autopilot. IT'S TIME TO THRIVE INSTEAD OF JUST SURVIVE YOU'RE READY FOR MORE DON'T LET THE FEAR OF GETTING IT WRONG HOLD YOU BACK FROM LIVING THE LIFE YOU WANT. I know you've tried to be proactive in figuring things out for yourself. You've done the self-development exercises you've found online, listened to the podcasts, bought the last night browse self-help books, journaled every day for months, spoken to friends and family. And yet something still doesn't feel right. You find yourself saying: "I don't know who I am anymore." "I feel stuck in a life that doesn't feel like mine." "How did I end up here?" "Why don't I feel like myself?" "Is this really it?" And these thoughts lead to guilt because you feel like you should be happy and you should be grateful because you did it, you achieved all the things everyone said you needed to in order to be successful and happy, and yet something is still missing. You don't recognise the woman you see in the mirror, because you’ve spent so long living by other people’s expectations, you no longer what that it is you actually want. You lack confidence in who you are because you're so used to being "the nice one, the reliable one, the one who always says yes," that you doubt your own voice and don't feel heard in your own life. You overthink because you're scared of how other people will react or judge you, leaving you stuck an powerless because you don't know what action to take or even if it will be the right action in the first place. If this sounds like you, you're not alone. I've worked with 100's of women who have felt like this, and have also felt like this myself. So I know what you're going through. And I know exactly how to help. YOUR ROADMAP TO A REGRET-FREE LIFE HI, I'M STACEY WELCOME, I'M SO GLAD YOU'RE HERE! At the heart of what I do is a deep desire to help others break-free from a life that doesn’t feel like their own. A life that looks successful on the outside but feels heavy on the inside. A life they’ve curated due to societal pressures and other people’s expectations. A life that if left unchanged they will ultimately come to regret. My own journey to a regret-free life led me to establishing SJS Coaching Services, a safe, non-judgemental space for women who look successful on paper but are lost in their own life. Using my unique blend of practical strategy and emotional insight, drawn from my background in psychology, I combine therapeutic depth with coaching momentum, helping you untangle your expectations from desires and take courageous, aligned action that moves you away from self-doubt and indecision, towards a confident regret-free life. So where ever you are in your own journey right now, welcome, I'm so glad you're here! START HERE IN THE MEDIA ARE YOU READY TO FEEL AT HOME IN YOUR LIFE AGAIN? LET ME HELP YOU RECONNECT WITH WHO YOU TRULY ARE AND BUILD A LIFE YOU'LL LOOK BACK AT AND BE PROUD OF. My super power is bridging emotional depth with practical, forward-focused action. I use my therapeutic background to help you make sense of yourself in a way you often haven’t been able to before so that you understand why you feel stuck and learn to let go of who you think you should be, so you can find a way forward that actually feels right for you. I know that what you really want is to: Know who you are so you can live by your own rules, trust your own choices and know what's best for you, regardless of anyone else's opinion. Feel seen and loved for exactly who you are, and able to take aligned actions that match the confident leading lady version of yourself, working towards your own definition of success and happiness. Be empowered to put your own needs first, and determined to take control of your future, knowing that you will learn from your mistakes and live a life that's true to who you really are. What you actually want to be saying is: "I finally feel like myself again." "I'm proud of the life I'm building." "I know what I need in order to be happy." "I trust that I know what's right for me." "I know I'm building a life I won't regret." That's why the work I do focuses solely on you owning your story and how it's shaping your future. I empower you to own your past so that you can consciously choose your future; instead of letting your baggage take the driving seat. As a result you stop second-guessing yourself and move away from indecision towards aligned action. You stop living on autopilot and feel in control of your life and confident enough to take intentional action, ultimately leading to a regret-free life. 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